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时间:2019-07-28

“我的儿子有一个小魔鬼的纹身。这个妖魔纹身经常让人做坏事。他儿子谋杀的错不是他自己的,而是纹身在他身上。”

6月9日,有关中国孕妇被丈夫推下悬崖的消息,我相信大家都看过了。

怀孕3个月的王女士和她的丈夫于木东在泰国乌汶叻差他尼的巴东国家公园玩耍。在此期间,王女士跌入悬崖,奇迹般地活了下来。经泰国警方调查后,怀疑该孕妇的丈夫将他推倒了。

王女士生活很重,受了重伤。经过12个小时的严重昏迷,她醒了,现在已经脱离了危险。她回到中国寻求医疗和离婚。

在被丈夫救出后,王女士获救并在医院病床上告诉记者:事件发生后,她的丈夫于木东及其家人从未向她道歉。

她接着说,事故发生后,她的岳母曾来过她的病房,但没有表达她的道歉。她只是想让她骗警察,说她已经堕落了。她拒绝了这个无理要求。婆婆多次侮辱她和她的家人,说她很小心:“你没死,你为什么报警,逮捕我的儿子”,说一个家庭互相掩护是合适的。

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婆婆也想两次保释她的儿子,以便律师找到一种方法来保护他。她说她是她儿子的小恶魔纹身,并开车送杀。他儿子谋杀的错误不是他自己的,而是他身上的纹身。

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这些网友都被婆婆粉碎了,并说:“有这样一位母亲就不足为奇了,养凶手就不足为奇了。”

儿子做了这种对人性的毁灭。这位母亲不仅没有道歉,还指责她的媳妇种下儿子的罪行并给他一个无罪的辩护.

想象一下这位母亲在这个男人的成长期间是多么迷人和放纵!也许她一直认为这是母爱,但想想看,这不是最大的陷阱吗?

小松一直关注这个案子。第一个是因为它很棒,第二个是因为它在这个精彩的事件中给了我们关于婚姻伴侣和家庭教育的各种想法。

首先,有些母亲有自己的儿子

一项权威的实验调查显示,家庭儿童素质中最重要的因素是母亲的教育水平。是的,这不是经济收入,不是父亲的素质,而是母亲的教育水平。

这不是我为小松写的。这是任何研究过教育学或心理学的人对的常识。

在王女士入狱期间,她的岳母曾希望她会看着孩子和丈夫继续欺骗泰国警察,说她不小心从悬崖上掉下来。在她的儿媳被拒绝后,她的婆婆多次打电话并指责王女士小心翼翼,并说她“还没有死,她为什么要报警?”。

这位婆婆的逻辑只不过是“当你死的时候,你应该报警!”

事实上,从她婆婆的话来说,她可以粗略地判断她是一个人。儿子试图发财,但她要求她的妻子隐瞒它。她甚至认为她没有过生活,也不会报警。俞牟东成了凶手,也许这与母亲的长期偏袒有很大关系。

此外,王女士的岳父从小就失业,依靠母亲的钱生活。从这个角度来看,俞牟东是受父亲影响,终日会闲着,不求进步,想找到赚钱的捷径,一夜暴富。

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为什么我们经常在调查嫌疑人时询问家族史和过去的历史,因为犯罪动机与此有关。

事实上,犯罪分子暂时急于杀人,而不是完全是外部刺激。就像人们每天说“**是一个暴力的人”一样,家庭教育并非如此,而且这个角色必定是有问题的。

如果您还是个孩子,请教育您的孩子:“如果您喜欢某些东西,您可以通过任何方式进行操作。”孩子长大,不会杀人和放火。

其次,闪婚不对自己负责

来自泰国的孕妇王女士与她的丈夫于默东结婚。

据悉,王女士和于某东在聚会上相遇,两人第一次见面。那个时候,这个男人追求强烈的追求,每天送花去求婚。

最后,王女士对她丈夫的浪漫印象深刻。即使她知道对方有抢劫和监禁,她仍然选择结婚。当他们相遇不到一个月时,他们就变成了夫妻。

在爱情第一阶段的浪漫阶段,人们只会看到对方的长处。

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正如王女士主动听取她的丈夫承认她以前的记录一样,以前的错误成了他婚姻中的额外分数。似乎这个不掩饰自己过去的男人似乎是非常诚实的,也是一个好的婚姻候选人!丈夫于木东说,他的前任是为了兄弟情谊,所以她选择原谅,她更愿意相信对方会改变前者。

在这种误解下,她被愚弄成娶了一个她不理解的男人。结婚后,当伴侣慢慢露出真面目时,她发现婚姻远远没有达到预期,但她别无选择只能做船。

在悬崖之后,我意识到这个丈夫不仅在这个案件的最后,而且以前的犯罪历史可以说是次等。

犯罪者不是不值得结婚,而是那些反复犯罪但不知道如何忏悔的人,应该保持警惕。

Therefore, in the case of flash marriage, the actual understanding of each other is very limited. At this time, it is impossible to understand each other and the other's family. On the contrary, if the time is long, the despicable person will inevitably reveal his despicable feet.

Third, work is an important factor in measuring a person's character

Komatsu stepped back and said that flash marriage is not impossible, but at least find an object that has a long-term stable work.

Many unreliable people are not working seriously. And being able to work long hours in a company is less likely to be "unreliable".

Because a person has a deliberate assessment in the work environment, this is a screening mechanism.

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Yu Moudong, the husband of Ms. Wang, who is pregnant in Thailand, has no system, no responsibility, no serious work, so she is more likely to go to the abyss of crime.

A job does not really care about whether there is money or not, but whether or not a person has ambition and responsibility. Because it is boring and incompetent to breed a person's malice.

In the "pregnant woman's cliff" incident in Thailand, Yu Moudong did not like to work. He had no criminal career in China. He had a lot of criminal records before, and later became addicted to gambling and games, owing huge gambling debts and debts. "Thai scam insurance" incident, Zhang Yifan two years after marriage, long-term unemployed, but has been pretending to go to work. Zhang Yufan is boring with sexual resistance. His computer has 158G porn videos, bought online porn services, and rewarded female anchors for more than 100,000 yuan in two months. "Shanghai kills his wife and corpse freezers case", Zhu Xiaodong has been idle for a long time, and his income is not as good as his wife. Frequent access to nightclubs and relationships with several women. He pursues famous brands, likes to dress up, and likes to raise snakes to raise lizards. Even the bad habit of gambling, owes a lot of gambling debts.

To the darkest path, by controlling the most intimate people, use this illusory power to eliminate their incompetence.

xx为了逃避无聊,每个人都总是需要新的刺激。正常人寻找的刺激能够真正地填补无聊,比如看书、旅行。可他们找的刺激就像毒药,短暂的兴奋之后,是更深的无聊,让人滑向深渊。

他们选择的方式就像是吸毒一般,并不解决问题,反而滋生更多问题。他们站在沼泽中,活在社会的阴影中,恶意不断滋生。

最终,他们将双手伸向枕边的人,拉上妻子走向地狱。

为人父母,没有不疼爱孩子的。但若不严加管教,孩子就不会有敬畏之心,界限之心。

正如雨果所说的: “寄托有时意味着断送”。

可怜天下父母心,为了避免“慈母败儿”的悲剧,小松就下面几点建议与您共勉。

1、 合理安排孩子的日常生活

孩子的衣食住行玩,家长可根据他们的生理和心理特点,进行合理的安排。

让孩子从小养成对生活有合理规划的态度。

2、 果断拒绝不合理要求,合理的要求也不可百分之百的极尽满足

对于不合理要求,拒绝态度要坚决,切不能让孩子软磨硬泡。

即使合理要求,也请孩子说出合理的理由和请求,不能立即满足。

小松之前写过一篇:“毁掉一个孩子最有效的方式,就是让他心想事成”,在今后会与大家分享。

3、家庭教育要有动态平衡

xxxxAs Zhao Wei said, if the family is particularly good for the child, then you have to be "poor" to the child and get a balance. The so-called "poor" is that the way you treat your child is different from other parents in the family. Let the child know that you will not be compliant with him, and that his requirements will be extraordinarily strict. At home, children have to have a scared person.

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4. Let the child be responsible for his own affairs

It is very easy for children to develop bad habits; but the maintenance of good habits is not easy, and it requires a lot of self-restraint and self-discipline.

At home, let them complete their own living, clean their own rooms, clean up their belongings and so on. At the age of five or six, let him sweep the floor and teach them to organize their room. At the age of seven or eight, in learning, they must develop their ability to think independently.

5. Teach children to be grateful

Parents should teach their children heartfelt thanks and smiles and let them learn to be grateful. A child who knows how to be grateful will grow into a good person in the future.

6, parents should learn to adhere to

To be honest, it’s hard to refuse to see the child’s difficulty in completing the task of learning and squinting at you, seeing the child asking you to play for a while. However, once, let, and finally, the parents themselves must learn to persist.

7. Parents should also lead by example

Parents are role models for children, parents are right, and children are naturally wrong.

Habits such as killing, blind love, will only develop a child of selfish greed, so that his life's risk index soared. Let him suffer moderate setbacks and let him eat the necessary hardships, because this is a necessary exercise for his future life. If he does not learn now, he will not learn in the future.

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